Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Sexy Ways to Pump Up Passion



Does your sex life have about as much dazzle as an old, beat up penny? Do you love your partner, but feel sad that sex just isn't the same as it used to be? It doesn't have to be that way. Here are the top 8 ways to put the passion back into your relationship.
1. Plan for passion. Maybe you don't remember, but some of your best lovemaking sessions happened when you knew you had a special date. Spontaneity is nice because it doesn't happen that often. So, plan.
2. Make your partner feel wanted. Tell your partner they're hot, sexy, and gorgeous and that you can't wait to get them alone--and mean it.
3. Stay fit. If you have a paunch, it isn't fair to complain about your partner's pot belly being a turn off. You should both make a commitment to keep your bodies in decent shape for yourselves and for one another.
4. Admit your feelings. No point hiding your boredom. If you haven't said anything yet, do. Your partner might feel the same way. Now you can work on having some fun together.
5. Go exploring. You may think you know every inch of your partner's body, but I'll bet you don't. When was the last time you kissed your partner's ankle? The inside of their thigh? The nape of their neck? Either find body parts you've missed, or go back and revisit a few faves.
7. Do something new. No, not a new toy, potion, or lotion. Something more exhilarating. Go mountain-biking together. Play tennis. Try a Vietnamese restaurant. Something to wake up all of your senses, not just your privates.
8. Use fantasy. And use it together. Tell one another your most erotic ideas. (Best to leave out relatives and close neighbors, though!) Make a rule that there's no judgment, and that you don't have to act them out. Maybe you'll see that your partner's mind is a whole lot sexier than you realized.
Eight ideas for pumping up passion, but surely you can think of more. When it comes to sex, humans are very creative creatures! Let go of your inhibitions, and you'll probably find out that there's lots more you can do to ignite a sex life that's gone cold.

by Dr. Stephanie Buehler

Friday, January 16, 2009

how many calories we need to survive?

IF you know how much energy is burned by your body in one day, you will know how many calories needed to maintain, reduce, or increase body weight. Here’s a simple formula to start your energy balance equation.

First, your weight is timed with 11 (weight*11). The result is called basalt metabolic rate, which is the minimum amount of calories needed to keep your system running your life.

Next, determine your level of activity time ago a scar your metabolic rate with the appropriate percentage below. The result is extra calories you need for a single day.

Level of activity Percent
Many sat 30-50
Lightweight 55-65
Medium 65-70
Weight 75-100

Category many sat or sedentary activity refers to the amount of time that you used to sit at home watching television, reading magazines, or by phone chitchat. Activities include rushing the light house, cooking, and walking around the village or complex after dinner.

Medium activities include relaxing swim or run but not until to tired (fast breath so you can’t speak normally) time-out talk. Weight activities include running or aerobic and any sport that makes our heart beat isn’t normal.

Sum these two numbers [(weight*11) + level of activity], then you get the total calories you need for a day. So, if you have a heavy 190 pounds (about 95 kilograms) to the level of day-to-day activities at the end of the scale are down, you will need 3,449 calories.

190 x 11 = 2090
2090 x 0.65 = 1359
2090 +1359 = 3449

However, this figure is just an estimate. Your metabolism can be measured more thoroughly by a specialist sports physiology specialist doctor or a decrease in body weight and metabolism.

Walking and its benefits to heart

STUDY in the last few years, the sanction that is walking has many benefits to our health to provide many benefits for our health. Here is nine points of benefit that can be obtained from walking.

Reduce Heart Attacks
We know the heart muscle needs more blood flows downpours (from coronary vessel that gave him to eat) to shape and to make it normally function without stopping the blood pump. Therefore, heart muscle needs more blood as swifter and smooth. Walking hurriedly is to quick the flow of blood in to coronary heart. Thus, the adequacy of oxygen makes our heart muscle able to tap normally.

Not only that. Trained elasticity artery will help our heart to contract and tight normally by stiffly musculature of the body in the vicinity of the blood vessel wall during walking. The result, blood pressure tends to be lower; adhesion between cells which will also be reduced.

More than that, HDL which working as spoons absorption bad cholesterol (LDL) will increase while we walking hurriedly. Walking is the best way to increase our HDL and according to sciences, there aren’t medicine tool to increase HDL except walking. Walking hurriedly has shown the fact to reduce the risk of a heart attack live half.

Stroke
Despite the benefits of walking hurriedly towards the impact of stroke has not been fact against coronary heart attack, some studies has shown good results. In the past, percentage of heart attack is very lover than today because our fathers live in the natural environment and technology, just walking because at the time, there is no car and any transportation. One study of 70 thousand nurses (Harvard School of Public Health), which was doing work in the walk as much as 20 hours in a week, their risk of stroke decreases 2/3 fell ill.

Weight Stable
Through walking, we increase our metabolism process and routine walking will able to help our metabolism to burn fats to get many calories. In the end, weight problems will be solved.

Lose Weight
In point 3 above, routine walking will increase the number of fat burned. For them whom have weight problems and decide to reduce their weight, they can try walking with high portion than standard version to stable weight.

Prevent diabetes
Yes, get one with race walking about 6 km per hour, the time of the approximately 50 minutes, it appeared that can delay or prevent.

Insomnia and Heart Feeling

My cousin’ husband only took 1 minute fall to sleep (REM Rapid Eyes Movement) while I spent more than 1 hour REM.

I have big problems in sleeping, a sleep disorder since couple years ago. I have learned and read some articles, ask to doctor analysis and share with them who have been health in sleeping disorder.
Insomnia or sleeping disorder is very danger, if you are busy person in morning or try to get enough sleeping to revitalize your physical. I take at least 1 hours to get sleep started from closed my eyes on my bed. I CANT SLEEP LAST NIGHT. This is the common state of mine when somebody said, hey Jacky, you look tired.

They told me that insomnia or sleeping disorder are caused by heart feeling, nutrition, live patterns, drugs, physical conditions. I am not the only one; million people out there also trouble with insomnia.
Insomnia reduces our sleeping or rest time and the effect is not fresh after wake up. They said; try to imagine a star or a hole or a thing when eyes are closed. Deeper and deeper to imagine those things (choose one) to make you faster to sleep.

Sleep is one of our fundamental activities to renew our mental and physical. I have told many friends that there are 24 hours a day and 8 hours for standing (work), 8 hours for sitting (eat and leisure) and 8 hours for sleeping. Once we have problems with 8 hours to rest; we can’t look fresh next day.
Insomnia prefers women than men because of some reasons, natural reasons such as menstrual cycle, when they’re pregnant, and during menopause. You might ask doctor and share about your problem in sleeping disorder, but before that make sure that you failed to avoid insomnia. Insomnia comes as our heart feeling as my experience. They said, what you thought in day, you will dream it in night (sleeping).

Playing with colors (to meet your skin)

Maybe you think this color pastels are not suitable for you…… I yearn for you that you may be wrong…. So, how to determine what colors are suitable for you? Here’s a guide so you do not incorporate one of your clothes.

Dark Skin
Men with darker skin types tend to have a ball of hair and brown eyes. If you are in this category, should choose a different color with your skin type. These tactics will make you look different and not boring, other than it also attracts all eyes are on you.

Best color:
1. Pink
2. White
3. Khaki
4. Baby Blue
5. Gray

Avoid:
1. Black
2. Dark chocolate
3. Turquoise / color mixture between green and blue
4. Light green
5. Magenta

You should not use colors that are too bright not to seem strong or color that is really dark. Black or Navy blue is mostly used as a color for the uniforms. Meanwhile, people who have dark skin type are less suitable to wear this color, so you should avoid this color unless forced.

According to the blend:
To impress casual, try Pair pink shirt with wool trousers gray. Make sure it does not have a shirt fold. In addition, you can also combine with brown leather jacket or leather shoes with soft texture.
Types of Skin olive
Men with these types of skin are more fortunate because it can put almost all types of color and still look presentable. Light and dark colors look perfect on your skin.

Best color:
1. Beige / color between gray and brown
2. Burgundy
3. Blue
4. Navy
5. Black
6. Pink underlined

Avoid:
1. Color green canary
2. Mauve
3. Dark chocolate
4. Red
5. Pale green

The only color that you should avoid is the color of most color your skin. For example, if you have a color that approach, refusing to color you should not wear pale green or brown.

According to the blend:
Such as skin color is not experiencing difficulties incorporate clothing. But if you want to appear a little different, try wearing beige-colored sweater with black trousers and red shoes are brown.

Pale Skin Type
This type of skin as very suitable clothing and soft pastel color. Colors are very attached in the skin so that each person will see you feel comfortable.

Best color:
1. Light blue
2. Brown
3. Beige
4. Beige
5. Blue metallic

Avoid:
1. Red
2. Pink
3. Orange
4. Yellow
5. Purple

The key is to avoid bright colors that are too light. So do not try to impose color is mainly in the afternoon.
According to the blend:
To impress casual, try Pair sweater blue sky, Khaki or beige trousers and brown shoes. As a final touch, try to add the appropriate belt for you.
Hopefully you can help to choose colors that match your personality and taste

Holy Smoke and The impact on Reproduction

For women who have the habit of smoking regularly, a health research states that women who smoke regularly will be difficult in reproduction than the irregular smoking, but both get bad problems in pregnant and reproduction health. We certainly know that cigarettes are the largest cause of death in the United States and almost in other countries. Main impact for regularly smoker’s women is difficult to pregnant. Thus, if you are smokers in reproduction area, flee stop smoking now or you will get problems in pregnant and the health of you and your baby…

Furthermore, the research found that pregnant who have a smoker risk of complications for himself also for the development of the fetus uterus. Babies are born will have the potential disruption of health. Research also explained that the study of women also experience a passive smoker risk of miscarriage.

The study involved 4,800 women such as sample and a surprising majority of the living environment in the smokers, living with parents who are also regular smoker, and this woman in trouble for pregnant, and they must wait about 1 year to be pregnant.

We all certainly know that cigarettes and cigarette smoke is a hazard. For the smokers (active and active), breath the smoke in a long time will cause negative effects, especially for women who are ready to have children. The study was conducted by Peppone and friends from Rochester University in New York. They also reported their findings in a report published Tobacco Control in November this year.

The sample of respondents are women whom visited the Roswell Park Cancer Institute between 1982 to 1998, to health care and cancer. These women claimed that they had pregnant at least once. The research team found that 11 percent of women are experiencing difficulties for pregnant while 1 / 3 of women who experienced miscarriage and died.

Risk and complexities problems will be significantly increase from time to time because of the high number of passive smoker and women who smoke regularly. Cigarettes contain toxins that cause interference in the function of reproduction. Toxins can damage the genes that cause the risk of miscarriage.

If you are active smoker, please to stop right now or you and your generation will be getting worst, down in health problems and if you are passive (second hand smokers) as you husband, family or your environment are active smokers, please avoid to associate with them or please tell them about the impact of smoke and tobacco.

Health your Body-Help your apperance

No woman want look bad in appearances. If you (woman) are not the caring woman (not try to look pretty everyday, but when given the opportunity to appear pretty, I guess and sure, women will happy to take it.

To become beautiful and attractive looks, all business is done. Start from the traditional to the most modern technology and sophisticated. Start to spa or to clean your body with traditional spices, in the salon and spa, to and fro face lift to look 10 years younger. Beauty is not yet limited only from the physical burnish the skin from the outside only. Caring for oneself, of course, must also from within. Maybe the trust, care that you do will be more of the beauty you emit more natural.

How? Try to follow leak below:

Nutrition
Strengthen the skin, hair and nail, you have to consume enoguh nutrition such as protein, vitamins and minerals such as vitamin E and folic acid, calcium, iron and zinc JAT. Are any appearances will be much better if beauty comes from the vitality and health in them?

Sports, not just for men!

Eat healthy foods like fresh fruits approximately one hour before the sport. This will make your stay longer during the energetic sports. The exercise will help burn excess calories and reduce body weight.

Friendly Fat to consume

Eat healthy fat to get to the shining skin and immune system will stronger. Special type of healthy fat are found in foods such as fish, nuts, avocado and olive oil. Fat is important for the health of the skin and nervous fibers to improve immunity and prevent infection.

Vegetables and fruit a deity helper

Air popuitan, which caused serious damage to the layer of cells and can trigger certain diseases such as cancer, one of the main causes of aging. Including the antioxidant vitamins A, C and E contained in fruits and vegetables can help prevent damage to these cells.

Water

Most of our body contain liquids. Everyday there are many gallons of fluid out of our body. Drink 8 glasses per day and when the sports, drinking 1-2 cups every 15 minutes. Water dissolves and will help bring nutrients that are easily soluble in water, adjust the body temperature and remove material that is not necessary.

Insufficient supply of liquid also keeps skin soft and remains healthy.
December 21st, 2008 in Beauty Woman, Nutrition, Woman Info, WomanTips

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Body And Soul - Keeping It Together!

LET'S START WITH THE BODY . . .

H E A L T H

It is said that the first thing a man does when he wakes in the morning is to look out of the window to see how the weather has changed overnight, and the first thing a women does on waking is to look in the mirror to see what the night has done to her face. Enough said … but if your look in the mirror is followed by 'Oh, my God … I could do with a face-lift, etc. etc.' (don't worry, we've all been there) before you start layering on more make-up and deciding to embark yet again on another diet/exercise regime (which will probably have been forgotten anyway by the weekend), let's stop wishing, and start by trying to make the best of what we have got.

We may not be able to recapture the healthy glow of youth, but we may be able to inject a little sparkle by giving as much thought to the inside of our bodies as we do to the outside. Just think of what would happen to a house if it were not built on firm foundations. Also how would our cars run if we filled them up with the wrong fuel? Similarly, how can we expect our bodies to function smoothly if we just worry about the paintwork and not concentrate on the engine? So analyse what you are putting into your body. Is it mainly 'comfort/grab-a-snack - I'm in a hurry' food, eg buns, crisps, chocolates etc., or is it nourishing food with all the vitamins and minerals the body requires to operate efficiently?

Many moons ago, a colleague of mine, who had a connection with a pharmaceutical company, said the idea had been muted within the company that as the elderly often start the day with a cup of tea and digestive biscuit, then a good way of ensuring that they receive all the necessary vitamins and minerals was to add them to the digestive biscuit It seemed a great idea, but when you think of how we absentmindedly dip into a packet of biscuits, then we would probably overdose on vitamins. Although we need vitamins we can also have too much of a good thing. It is worth remembering that whereas the body will expel too much of say Vitamin C, the body will store Vitamins A & D and an overload of these vitamins can have a detrimental effect. So leave it to the experts to get the balance right. It is better to start the day (together with your nourishing breakfast) with a good multi-vitamin and mineral tablet. The tablet container will show the RDA (which stands for the 'recommended daily allowance'), and it will also show how the tablet equates with this.

A good multi-vitamin and mineral supplement is the Holland & Barrett's

Formula for the 50 PLUS called ABC PLUS SENIOR (on half-price offer at the present time).

Another supplement I would recommend for those of us whose memory is not what it used to be is 'Ginkgo Biloba'. (Also on half-price offer at the moment). This has been in use for years on the continent as an aid to improving the circulation. It is said that it not only improves the supply of blood to the head and subsequently improves the memory (so hopefully we'll remember where we put the bottle of tablets) but it also improves the blood supply to the extremities, which is great if you suffer from cold hands and feet. Ginkgo, by the way, comes from the Ginkgo tree, which is one of the oldest trees known to man. You can therefore appreciate how vital it is that we do not allow plants to become extinct.

Remember the old wives' tale that 'fish is good for the brain'? (When I hear this saying, my mind always goes back to a lecturer jokingly saying that his mother was determined that he would do well and always made him eat fish before an examination, and, of course, to her delight he did do well). Well, now it has been proved that Omega 3 (pure fish oils) not only benefits the brain but the whole body. It is high in essential fatty acids, which help to maintain a healthy heart and circulation.

Another very good supplement is Selenium. This was naturally present in the earth and in our vegetables years ago, but sadly has become depleted over the years with intensive farming and chemicals. So we can put back this missing ingredient. I certainly felt a difference on taking this as a supplement.

Now, if you are prone to numerous infections, coughs, colds, etc., then your immune system needs a boost. In addition to the usual Vitamin C, a couple of good supplements for this are Zinc and Echinacea. It's a good idea to take Echinacea well before the 'flu time' is upon us in order to get it into the system.

We have always known the importance of making sure that we have enough calcium in order to maintain bone strength, but it is only in the past few years that Glucosamine has come to the fore as an aid to the joints. Glucosamine is believed to stimulate cartilage growth and prevent it wearing down and hopefully reducing the subsequent pain. I have a friend who swears this has helped her painful joints. Chondroitin is often added to the Glucosamine as this helps to attract fluid into the cartilage Healthy Direct (www.healthydirect.co.uk) has a special offer on this powerful combination of Glucosamine, Chondroitin and Vitamin C. They also operate a free postage and packing with prompt delivery service, which is great if you have difficulty in getting to the shops.

Notice that throughout I have been using the word 'supplement' as no tablets are going to replace a healthy diet. I remember being told by a doctor when I was in my twenties that the way towards a healthy life was to eat a small amount of a wide variety of foods and that way the body would obtain the necessary vitamins and nourishment. Whilst I agree with the 'variety' advice, I am not sure with the present day treatment and overlong storage of foodstuffs (particularly fruit and vegetables) whether there are many vitamins left by the time they reach the table. It came as a shock to hear at one lecture that when they tested an orange for its Vitamin C content, the results came back as a surprising 'nil'. Still to end on a happy note, the fibre content was there, and we must eat plenty of FRESH fruit and vegetables not only for the vitamins but also for the fibre and enzymes necessary for the digestive process to function properly. But more on that - together with a breakdown of all the essential vitamins and my favourite subject - FOOD - (I'll try not to think about or mention chocolate cake)

IT'S … 'HOLD-BACK-THE-YEARS' FOOD …… next time

Looking forward to chatting to you again and also looking forward to hearing from you …
by: Jon Wickham

Mind, Body, and Soul

Being in tune with your mind, body, and soul and how they work is the one most important thing you can do for yourself. We know now that, the three work together. If the body is ill, the mind and soul are affected as well. If the mind becomes ill the body and soul show the stress of that. But, I think the strongest combination showing the most illness is when the soul becomes stressed. That seems to make the body and mind crumble the quickest. I, myself, have learned that first hand! But, it also works in the reverse! When the body is healthy, the mind is sound and the soul is happy. Keeping these three in balance is a life long task. So, learning how to do it and then maintain- ing it with little effort is very important. We do have other things in life to accomplish! However, the other things we are accomplishing will be enhanced and go much easier if we take the time to be in tune with ourselves.

The first thing one must learn about being in tune with yourself, is to be in tune with YOURSELF. When a person finds something that works for them, they are so enthused that they want everyone else to do the same thing. Someone loses weight using a specific diet, someone joins a new religion, or someone tries a new vitamin. We also want to lose weight, or find the happiness in joining a group, or want the benefits that other person is enjoying from the vitamin, so we try it fully expect- ing the same results. My Dad used to say that if a person took mega doses of Vitamin C they would never have a cold or the flu again. Thats because that is the way it worked for him. What happens is sometimes we get the same results and sometimes we don't. Sometimes nothing happens or we get bad results. The reality of this situation is that each of us is unique. Yes, our bodies are alike in structure and the method they operate, but there the sameness ends. Each of us have a different balance. Because of that you can take one diet and try it out on ten different people and some will lose weight, for some it won't make any difference, some may gain and some may lose too much weight. Take ten different people, expose them to the same religion or group and get ten different interpretations of what that group is all about about. Some will embrace it entirely and find joy, others may be left cold or violently disagree. Give ten people the same diet regimen and there may be ten different results. Some it will affect dramatically and others it may not. So, the key to getting in tune with your body, mind and soul will include finding what works for you, useing those things, and not being discouraged when something doesn't work for you that work for your spouse, best friend or neighbor. Remember, you are unique!
by: Kristine Peterson
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